What is spousal maintenance?
What is spousal maintenance?
Spousal maintenance is a payment made by either a husband or wife to their former partner when they divorce or dissolve their civil partnership. It is a specific sum of money paid (usually monthly) for a specified period. Spousal maintenance is different to child maintenance and is only paid if one person cannot support themselves after the divorce or dissolution of the civil partnership. It is paid by the stronger financial person to the person in a financially weaker position. These days the courts see this as a short-term payment may be for a few months or a few years.
In what circumstances do people get spousal maintenance?
If one person in the relationship needs a financial top-up from their ex. The most common scenario for this if one person has given up their career in order to bring up children.
How much spousal maintenance should be paid?
As you may expect, this is a difficult one to answer as there is no defined formula. In general terms, it will depend on how much will be needed to live on, how much income the receiver already has and how much the receiver could earn in the future.
A good place to start when deciding how much to pay is to list out your monthly outgoings. The court will expect both you and your ex to have similar standards of living post-divorce so you should look at both of your financial positions once the proposed spousal maintenance has been paid.
Longer-term, the court will expect the receiver of spousal maintenance to re-train and get back into work, and to achieve financial independence if possible.
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When does spousal maintenance end?
There are three scenarios when the maintenance ends:
- On the agree date formalised through the courts
- If either person dies
- If the receiver of the maintenance re-marries
What happens if someone stops paying?
If there is a reason the payer has stopped paying such as an obvious change in their circumstances (maybe they have lost their job) then it's wise to try and resolve things yourself by negotiation a new payment schedule. If however, the payer of spousal maintenance just stops payments reason and they won’t negotiate with you, you can enforce that they pay through the courts if your spousal maintenance was documented in a consent order. A consent order is the document that legalises your agreed financial split and ends any future claims. The spousal arrangement should be included in this consent in order to ensure that you’re protected in the future.
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Comments (2)
Hi, Re Spousal Maintenance I work part time in a school. I changed career from a director in advertising in London when the children were toddlers so I could be the main carer and have school holidays free to look after them. My husband who I am divorcing is suggesting I drastically change back into the higher income career and go full time. Until then he will stage payments , and reduce as time goes on until I have reached that goal. My children are only 11 and 13 and still need me during school holidays. Is it correct that he can insist I not only re-change career after 5 years building in another career but go back full time? Also, so he can assess maintenance calculations he would like to know what benefits I can access. My parents have a property they put in my name as an inheritance when I was a student. I have never benefited from the rental income, they use it for maintenance on the property and sits in an account they set up which I'm not privy too. Although I do not financially benefit from it, though it is in my name, do I include this with my part time income when checking what benefits are applicable to me, even though it is not actually part of my own income? I hope my two queries makes sense. Thank you Ayshea
Good evening My husband left me for another woman nearly 4 years ago, he is still with her. We were married for 20 years,I am 61 now we have joint mortgage, it is interest only so he currently pays £292.00 per month for this nothing else. The mortgage term comes to an end in 8 years time with an outstanding debt of £154,000 I cannot get a mortgage to pay this off. I would like to divorce him but I also need financial maintenance to enable me to move on to a smaller property. Can you please advise me which route to take.....HELP!! Thank you